Ever since I was a kid, the Christmas season has always held a special magic for me.
Growing up in Switzerland, where snow-dusted Christmases used to be the norm only added to the enchantment.
I love everything about this time of year—the cinnamon tea, hot chocolate, cozy blankets, glowing lights, comforting food, and Christmas movies on TV.
But while I treasure this season, I know that not everyone feels the same about it.
For many, the holiday season brings not only stress but also feelings of loneliness, turning what should be a time of warmth and connection into a period that feels rushed or even isolating.
In this article, we’ll explore 22 ways to slow down, savor each moment, and truly enjoy a more peaceful holiday season.
So, grab your favorite warm drink, and settle in as we dive into 22 ways to enjoy a slow holiday season and make your holiday a lot more meaningful.
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Main Causes of Stress During The Holiday Season
First, I think it’s important to recognize that holiday stress mainly emerges from two causes.
For some people, especially elderly people, the Christmas season exacerbates hardships they face all year long.
Instead of being a time filled with joy, social interactions, and good memories, this period can also be marked by grief and loneliness.
This is especially true for people dealing with family issues, living far away from their loved ones, facing mental health challenges, or financial difficulties. For some people, the holiday season is really when they feel the most vulnerable.
Hence, helping them navigate this period of hardships with more ease is important.
However, there’s another type of holiday stress which seems to be affecting more and more people every year.
For those fortunate enough to have the family and resources to celebrate Christmas and New Year’s Eve, creating the perfect holiday and keeping up with the frenzy that sometimes comes with the season is also an important source of stress.
These sources of stress can rapidly turn what should be a magical time into a source of anxiety.
But what if the secret to making the most out of the holiday season was actually to slow down?
No matter the cause of the stress you usually face during this time of the year, these 22 tips and habits will help you enjoy a slow holiday season.
22 Ways to Enjoy a Slow Holiday Season
1. Reflect on What Christmas Truly Means to You
In a world of glittering Instagram posts and cinematic Christmas ideals, it’s easy to lose sight of what this season really means to each of us.
This reflection may be the single most important step to genuinely enjoying the holidays, yet it’s also one of the hardest.
Society pressures us to do more, buy more, and reach for an ideal that reality never matches. But without inner clarity, we lose touch with what makes Christmas truly special to us.
When I think back to past Christmases, I remember watching the first two Home Alone movies after a big dinner as we all waited to open the Christmas gifts.
This is what Christmas means to me: time spent with family members, enjoying a great meal, and laughing together as we watch an old comedy.
Think about what you enjoy the most about the holiday season and how to make it even more special this year.
2. Create a Holiday To-Do List
If you’re the one organizing the Christmas festivities, you should take some time to create a Christmas to-do list in November or early December.
It might sound a bit excessive, but doing so will really help you break down the tasks to complete, plan effectively, and have a list of steps ready—plus, it will allow you to avoid the absolute chaos of last-minute shopping.
And we all know it; it’s a major cause of stress during the holiday season.
Here are some key items that should typically make it onto your Christmas checklist:
- Create a gift list—who gets what, how much to spend, and where to buy it
- Curate a Christmas music playlist
- Look for where to watch (TV, Netflix, Amazon, Disney) your favorite Christmas movies
- Review existing decorations and make a list of anything new you need
- Decorate your home
- Create DIY Christmas decorations
- Gather recipes to try
- Plan the Christmas menu.
And the list goes on.
You can approach your calendar in the same way. Don’t just jot down social commitments; include enjoyable activities like visiting a Christmas market or having a Christmas movie night with friends.
3. Create a DIY Christmas Decor
Getting creative with DIY Christmas decor is a wonderful way to add a personal touch to your holiday celebrations.
Gather your family or friends and set aside an afternoon to craft some festive decorations together.
You can create a charming Christmas wreath using fresh greens, pinecones, and ribbons, or make your own ornaments with simple materials like felt, twine, and paint.
Another fun idea is to fill mason jars with seasonal items such as faux snow, small ornaments, or battery-operated fairy lights to create beautiful centerpieces.
Nothing beats the satisfaction of displaying decor that you made with your own hands.
So, gather your supplies and let your imagination run wild as you bring the spirit of Christmas into your home!
4. Enjoy an Evening Walk
Embrace the holiday spirit by taking an evening walk through your neighborhood.
The crisp air and twinkling decorations create a magical atmosphere that’s perfect for soaking in the season.
Take the time to pause at a cozy café to warm up with a comforting drink perhaps even indulge in a delicious dessert with a friend.
This simple yet meaningful activity allows you to appreciate the beauty of the season while enjoying quality time with loved ones.
Whether you’re sharing laughter, stories, or just a moment together, an evening walk will create lasting memories.
Related read: 12 Benefits of a Slow Lifestyle
5. Light Up Some Candles
There’s nothing that signals the start of the holiday season quite like the warm glow and comforting scents of my favorite Yankee Candles.
Lighting candles is a simple yet effective way to transform your space into a cozy haven.
Doing so will not only create a beautiful ambiance but also fill the air with delightful fragrances that evoke the holidays.
Whether you choose classic scents like cinnamon, cedar, GingerBread or Christmas cookie, each candle brings its own unique charm and warmth to your home.
So take a moment to unwind, light a few candles, and enjoy the serene atmosphere they create.
Embracing this small ritual will really enhance the magic of this time of year, making your surroundings feel even more inviting and festive.
So go ahead, indulge in the glow of candlelight and let the spirit of Christmas fill your home!
6. Add Fluffy Textures to Your Home
Transform your space into a cozy place by adding fluffy textures that create warmth and comfort.
Start with a soft, snuggly blanket draped over your couch or armchair, inviting you to curl up with a good book or a holiday movie.
White, fluffy pillows add an extra layer of comfort and elegance, creating a serene and inviting atmosphere.
Complement these textures with warm lights that twinkle gently in the background, enhancing the magical ambiance of the season.
These simple touches can help turn your home into a personal cocoon, perfect for enjoying the holiday spirit.
7. Create a Christmas Budget
Finding the perfect Christmas gift for everyone can not only quickly become an important source of stress but also be very expensive.
The essence of a gift should be about joy—making someone happy while also experiencing the delight of giving.
So have a conversation with your loved ones early on to discuss expectations and price limits to ensure everyone is on the same page.
By offering thoughtful gifts, you will ensure the people receiving them actually enjoy them.
8. Plan a Festive Afternoon for Wrapping Presents
Set aside a festive afternoon dedicated to wrapping Christmas gifts and writing holiday cards.
Gather your supplies, play your favorite Christmas songs, and let the cheerful tunes fill the air as you dive into the holiday spirit.
Whether you choose to do it alone, with your partner, or alongside your kids, this activity can be a delightful way to kick off the celebrations.
Some of my favorite Christmas memories aren’t from Christmas Eve itself but from the simple joy of wrapping gifts and writing heartfelt notes.
This is the perfect opportunity to reflect on the joy of giving while spreading gratitude and happiness to those you love.
9. Get Some New Christmas-Flavored Teas
Treating yourself to a few festive, Christmas-flavored teas is another great way to enjoy a slow holiday season.
When I was in college, stopping by Tekoe for a warm cup of tea was my one motivation for those early Saturday morning classes in the Winter.
Winter is truly the perfect time to savor the comfort and health benefits of a warm cup.
Whether you love spiced chai, cinnamon, peppermint, or any other holiday-inspired blend, finding your favorite flavors will turn tea into a delightful habit.
Make it a small ritual to unwind, recharge, and enjoy the simple pleasure of a delicious, steaming cup of tea during the holiday season.
10. Grab a New Book
One of my favorite things to do during the Christmas holidays is diving into a good book.
For me, books are always the perfect gift, and I can’t think of a cozier way to slow down than by starting the day with a new read.
Imagine starting Christmas morning wrapped in a warm blanket, reading one (or many) chapters of your favorite book.
To make it even better, pair it with a cup of apple-cinnamon tea and a fresh French croissant for the ultimate cozy experience.
The best things in life really are—almost—free, and few things compare to the joy of reading a good book on a chilly holiday morning.
11. Slow Down and Actually Do Less
Take a moment to reflect on what your December usually looks like.
Is it packed with activities, obligations, and social events?
How does that actually make you feel?
Imagine what it would be like to do less this year—fewer obligations could mean more space for rest, spontaneity, and meaningful moments.
By opting for a slower pace, you can say yes to last-minute invites if you want to or savor quiet time for yourself when needed.
If less stress and more calm are what you crave this season, embracing simplicity is key. Focus on the things that bring you joy: if you love decorating, make time for it, but if it’s not a priority, keep it simple.
Decide in advance how many gatherings you want to commit to, and give yourself permission to say “no” once you’ve reached your limit.
Related read: How to implement a slow morning routine
12. Watch Christmas Movies
Set aside an evening to gather with your family or friends, get cozy, and watch your favorite Christmas movies together.
This simple tradition is a perfect way to enjoy quality time and soak in the holiday spirit without any stress.
Pick a few classics or even explore new holiday films, grab some blankets, and maybe make a batch of popcorn or hot chocolate to set the mood.
Watching Christmas movies is a great way to unwind and let everyone share in the joy and magic of the season.
Make it a holiday ritual that everyone looks forward to each year as you prepare for the next slow holiday season!
13. Rewatch Your Favorite Childhood Movies
Make some time to yourself this holiday season and dive back into the memories of your favorite childhood movies.
There’s something truly comforting about revisiting these nostalgic films; they bring back memories, warmth, and a sense of wonder.
Grab your coziest blanket, settle in with a cup of hot cocoa or tea, and let yourself be transported to a simpler time.
Whether it’s an animated classic or a holiday tale you used to watch on repeat (for me it’s the Harry Potter film series!), this quiet time alone will be a relaxing escape and a beautiful way to reconnect with yourself.
14. Create a Christmas Playlist
Get into the holiday spirit by creating a Christmas playlist filled with your favorite festive songs.
There’s really nothing like the sound of classic holiday songs to lift your mood, whether you’re wrapping gifts, baking treats, or just cleaning around at home.
Start with a few timeless classics like:
- “Jingle Bell Rock” by Bobby Helms
- “White Christmas” by Bing Crosby
- “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree” by Brenda Lee
- “All I Want For Christmas is You” by Mariah Carey
- “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas” by Frank Sinatra
Select a mix of upbeat and cozy songs to create the perfect holiday atmosphere.
This playlist can become your go-to soundtrack throughout the season, filling your home with festive cheer and lifting everyone’s spirits!
15. Focus on Gratitude
The holiday season is an ideal time to embrace gratitude, slowing down to appreciate all that you already have.
Instead of focusing on what’s missing or compiling endless wish lists, try reflecting on life’s simple joys—those small, often-overlooked moments.
Embrace the spirit of giving by looking for ways to brighten someone else’s season, especially those who may feel lonely or face hardship.
The holidays can be tough for many, and sometimes the most meaningful gift is your presence and compassion.
When we take the time to uplift others, we not only bring joy to their lives but feel more connected and fulfilled ourselves.
So, regardless of any family challenges or personal stresses, extend a helping hand, practice empathy, and allow gratitude to guide you through this season.
16. Play Board Games
Gather around for a cozy evening of board games with family or friends.
There’s something very nostalgic about sitting together, sharing laughs, and enjoying friendly competition over a classic game.
Whether you’re pulling out family favorites like Monopoly or Clue, or trying a new game, this simple activity is perfect for creating fun holiday memories.
Playing board games encourages everyone to slow down, unplug, and engage in quality time that’s both lighthearted and meaningful.
17. Plan a Self-care Evening
Set aside an evening just for you to unwind and recharge amidst the holiday rush.
Start by creating a cozy atmosphere—light some candles, put on calming music, and indulge in a soothing activity, whether it’s a warm bath with essential oils, a skincare routine, or reading a few chapters of a favorite book.
Taking this time for self-care helps you reset and find balance, allowing you to fully enjoy the rest of the holiday season.
18. Try New Recipes
The holidays are also the perfect opportunity to experiment with new recipes.
Whether it’s a festive dessert, a unique side dish, or a twist on a classic holiday main, trying something new is a fun way to change your routine.
Invite friends to join you in cooking/baking or just to have dinner and you might discover a new favorite recipe to add to your holiday traditions!
19. Spend Some Time Outside
Even though it’s tempting to stay indoors during the cold winter months, spending more outside can be incredibly refreshing and beneficial.
Getting enough sunlight is essential for boosting your Vitamin D levels and maintaining your overall health during this season.
So bundle up in your favorite warm clothes and take a brisk walk in the crisp air, or simply sit outside with a warm drink to soak in the beauty of nature.
Enjoying the serene winter landscape will help you slow down and appreciate the simple joys around you, from the crunch of snow underfoot to the beauty of bare trees.
Embrace the outdoors as a way to recharge your energy and create a deeper connection with the world around you.
20. Simplify Your Home
As you decorate for the holiday season, take this opportunity to simplify your space.
Rethink your decorations and focus on what truly brings you joy.
Declutter areas of your home, removing items that don’t serve a purpose or that you no longer love.
This not only makes your home feel more spacious and inviting but also allows your holiday decor to shine without overwhelming your space.
Embrace a minimalist approach, choosing a few meaningful decorations that capture the spirit of the season.
By simplifying your home, you create a more peaceful environment that enhances your enjoyment of the holidays and makes room for peace.
21. Write a Book Reading List
There’s something thrilling about writing down the titles I want to read; for me it’s almost as exciting as the actual experience of buying and diving into the books themselves.
Creating a book reading list is one of my favorite end-of-year traditions.
And this habit is also perfect for a slow holiday season routine.
If you’ve been on this blog before, you know that personal growth is essential for a fulfilling life, and reading is one of the most effortless ways to learn and expand your horizons.
So, if you’re as excited as I am to kick-start the new year with a stack of fresh reads, here are twelve books I’m planning to (re)read next year to inspire your own list:
- The Things You Can Only See When You Slow Down by Haemin Sunim
- Dear Self by Patience Tamarra
- A Gentle Reminder by Bianca Sparacino
- This Was Meant to Find You by Charlotte Freeman
- All That You Deserve by Jacqueline Whitney
- Beyond Worthy by Jacqueline Whitney
- Beauty in the Stillness by Karin Hadadan
- Healing is the New High by Vex King
- Good Vibes, Good Life by Vex King
- Make Your Bed by Admiral William H. McRaven
- Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before by Julie Smith
22. Reflect on The Past Year
Taking time to reflect on the highs and lows of the past year is my favorite way to close out the holiday season.
This practice not only honors your journey but also lays the groundwork for an even better year ahead.
Since this article focuses on slowing down, we won’t dive into setting goals for the new year just yet.
Instead, take a moment to appreciate what you’ve accomplished and recognize how much you’ve grown and evolved over the past year.
As you prepare for the upcoming year, prioritize fully enjoying the holidays and allow yourself a few days to recharge if you can take a few days off.
Embrace this time for reflection, so you’re ready to step into the new year with energy and intention.
Final Thoughts
The holiday season offers a unique opportunity to slow down and recharge before embarking on a new year filled with personal goals and intentions.
By taking time to reflect, enjoy simple pleasures, and connect with loved ones, you will cultivate a sense of peace and gratitude.
Embracing this slower pace allows you to reset and prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for the challenges and joys that lie ahead.
As you transition into the new year, let this time of rest guide you toward your aspirations.
Make the most of this special season to set a strong foundation for the exciting journey that awaits with these 22 ways to enjoy a slow holiday season.